Letter to the editor
Faith, values and gay marriage
The Founding Fathers were not deeply religious
in the current conventional sense.
Most were Unitarians, believing in an undefined
God with a mildly benevolent sense of Providence. It helps to read
and remember history before making claims based on current desire.
The current acceptance of magical thinking makes it difficult to
maintain what used to be regarded as a conventional standard.
With that in mind, we can only do, and hope, for the best.
The Founders were profoundly aware of the tremendous
cost and overwhelming waste and evil involved in using government
to enforce anyone's particular religious views.
They had the history of the English Civil Wars
and knew very well that one side's victory easily turned into that
same side's bitter defeat—with no gain to anyone, least of
all to God. Remember, too, that many of the colonists came from
families that had been on the losing side at least once or twice
over the previous hundred years.
Picture how the stereotypical Texan would feel
if their local schools and tax-supported churches had been enforcing
and requiring Muslim prayers in the classroom and on the football
field—not only offended by the disregard for their personal
beliefs, but further, ground under the heel of one's government
in the process. This process produces generations of hatred and
cycles of revenge.
When people feel justified by their faith, they will do inhumane
and unconscionable things that generate bitter and permanent resentments—such
as torture, unjust imprisonment, permanent detention, and bombing
cities full of civilians. (Sound familiar? Hard to believe Abu Ghraib
and Guantanamo have American Flags flying over them, isn't it?)
This is why our Constitution was written the
way it was. Deliberately preventing the misuse of government by
any faction wanting to use government to enforce its religious views
on everyone else produces greater efficiency in social and civil
relations. Everyone goes along with everyone else, and everyone
gets along on their way to their individual goals. Works pretty
well when the basic rules are respected.
The current wave of homophobia, while agitated
by irresponsible politicians, does have a basis in the community.
Some in the traditional heterosexual community fear that marriage
has been weakened. Sure it's been weakened—by heterosexuals
deciding that it is optional. Gays who support marriage and commitment
are trying to find their way toward stability. They are not going
to get "healed" into being straight. Sorry, doesn't happen,
no matter how many evangelicals wish it were otherwise. God made
most of us "straight," some of us "gay," and
others either indifferent or different. This is a matter of individual
privacy, and it's nobody's business but theirs what they do with
their plumbing—same as with straight people. That's why they
are called
one's "privates."
Marriage, if it is weaker now than it used to
be, is weaker because it is optional for the people in the relationship.
People live together without marriage, they get divorced, they have
kids—all without necessarily being married. And these are
the straight people we're talking about here.
What sense does it make to rant and rave about
the 5 or 10 percent who are gay, when the problem is with the other
95 or 90 percent who are straight? Fearing gay marriage is like
vacuuming the bedroom carpet when the foundation of the house needs
sandbagging against a flood.
What we really need is a decent national parental
leave policy that will allow parents to stay home and bond with
their kids during early childhood development. The real problem
is not private sexuality. The real problem is all these kids being
raised by appliances while their parents are out scrambling for
jobs, money, and gas to run back and forth on their incredibly stressful
treadmills. The kids grow up without character and values, and even
less education. Frequently tested and measured, indeed. But poorly
educated, and left way behind all those kids in other countries
who are NOT wasting their time learning Creationist "Intelligent
Design" pablum.
Who do you think is going to invent the next
wave of communication technology? Someone filled with the self-righteousness
of evangelical faith, or one of those bright kids in India or Finland,
where they are training to compete in the 21st century?
And thanks to all the propaganda on Fox News
and the Great Right-Wing Noise Machine, their parents, who watch
an average of four hours a day of television, have become truly
incapable of making informed decisions based on actual facts.
We get the government we deserve. Not necessarily the one we need,
but thank God the 9/11 bunch was just a small group of amateurs.
Now that we've trained and motivated millions of Muslims, we'll
be discovering the real cost of kissing up to, and blindly following
that rich dry drunk from Texas who truly is the Antichrist, a man
without vision, compassion, or common sense, who thinks his "gut"
is God telling him what to do, and that "the turn of the century"
meant a return to the 19th century.
Yee-Hah! sure sounds a lot like Jihad!, doesn't
it? Let's all pray for the future of our country and a return to
secular, intelligent, and reality-based government. These people
with young Mr. Bush remind me too much of the people with brown
shirts, big leather belts, and special crosses who thought they
had all the answers back in the 1930s and early 40s. We called them
Nazis then. They call themselves "neo-conservative Republicans"
now.
David K. Porter
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